Asked DH to wait

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Asked DH to wait

Postby renee c. on Wed Jan 20, 2010 5:02 am

I've been having a real hard time with DH going to get snipped right away. I'm at the point that I am not sure that I want another baby, but not sure that I do not. I don't want to make a premature decision that is permanent and then regret it later. We will revisit it when Ashley is a little older. Maybe these feelings will pass when she is older and I will feel differently? I don't know. Only time wil tell. All I know is getting snipped right now does not feel like the right thing to do. DH has agreed to wait a bit and see how we feel later. What a good man. :smileface:
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Re: Asked DH to wait

Postby Flower on Wed Jan 20, 2010 6:37 am

I can imagine that would be a hard decision. Glad to see you and your dh are on the same page. That helps so much when both spouses agree.
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Re: Asked DH to wait

Postby Leah on Wed Jan 20, 2010 3:16 pm

What a great DH you have! I think it was wise to wait... especially if you are undecided now. You can make the same decision later if you want.
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Re: Asked DH to wait

Postby SnappyDragon on Thu Jan 21, 2010 7:57 am

I think it's good to wait, you have nothing to lose by waiting. I've been told by many women that IF you have any inkling about another child, you will probably have another child! :smileface:
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